Things about LIFE that I’ve learned from my Webcam Model Job

#LourdesModels perspective: EveMartini

20 September 2023

EveMartini

The people on the other side of the screen are, themselves, people!

You can learn a lot from being a Webcam model. One of the biggest plot twists I have encountered on my cam journey was discovering that the people on the other side of the screen were, in fact, people. Of course, sex is a huge part of the business, but I realized an even bigger element is the emotional labour which brings up an emotional response in order to foster a sense of authentic intimacy. I’ve found that in most cases a person’s desires can be traced to a very specific moment from their childhood, meaning they’re deeply ingrained and frankly quite permanent. It’s fascinating! A live cam website happens to be a safe place to exercise those needs without being condemned as a freak. After exploring countless worlds via webcamming, I found myself much more comfortable in my own skin, despite the fact that many consider this business and the models who practice it without self-esteem. I believe that this business has made me 1000% more confident in myself and in my unique qualities. That being said, I believe that because of this business I have discovered myself and my positive and negative sides in terms of communication, first of all, but also in terms of the feminine side that every woman is searching for.

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